Loretta Lee

Breaking Free from Money Belief System Holding You Back - Pt 1

Over the past few weeks in our Heart-Centred Entrepreneur Pod, we’ve been diving deep into the hidden beliefs—our Money BS (Belief System)—that shape our financial reality. It’s eye-opening how our early experiences and the stories we’ve absorbed can influence our relationship with money, often without us even realizing it.

Here are some of the points we discussed:

  1. Unpacking Childhood Money Narratives

From childhood to adulthood, we’ve accumulated beliefs from our environment that impact how we view wealth

These experiences can lead to common beliefs:

  • Money Requires Hard Work: Associating wealth with relentless effort and sacrifice.
  • Obligations Tied to Wealth: Feeling that having money means you must give it away to help others.
  • Scarcity Mindset: Believing that resources are limited, which fosters a sense of lack.
  • Money doesn’t grow on trees

Reflection: What are your thoughts around money? Do you operate from a sense of abundance or scarcity?

  1. Hidden Barriers Repelling Wealth

Sometimes, subconscious fears and misconceptions can push money away:

  • Fear of Paying More Taxes: Worrying that earning more means losing more to taxes.
  • Avoiding Financial Burdens: If you’ve experienced relatives frequently borrowing money, you might unconsciously deter wealth to prevent these situations. Establishing healthy boundaries is key.
  • Income Limiting Beliefs: For instance, in the UK, student loan repayments kick in once you earn over £24,990. Some might aim to earn less to avoid repayments, unknowingly capping their potential.

Message to Parents: Be mindful of the messages you share.

 

  1. The Comfort Zone of Financial Struggle

Have you noticed patterns where individuals, despite higher earnings, still end up with tight finances? This can stem from:

  • Familiarity with Scarcity: Feeling uncomfortable having excess money because it’s unfamiliar territory.
  • Spending Habits: Sub-consciously spending until finances are depleted to return to a ‘normal’ state.

 

Your attitude towards money profoundly influences how you manage it. Recognizing and understanding these patterns is the first step towards change.

  • What stories have I been told about money?
  • Are these beliefs serving my goals and happiness?
  • How can I shift my mindset to embrace abundance and prosperity?

 

So how do you rate yourself against the points discussed. Should you have any questions, do reach out  to loretta.lee@loretta-lee.com.

Watch this space, as I will add more points in the coming posts.

With Lurve,

Loretta Lee

Financial Educator & Money Maven